Joining Three Day Rule and working with my Matchmaker Maryann is the single best thing I have ever done for my dating life!
Maryann took time to get to know me and to understand (and to help me understand!) what I am looking for in a relationship in detail, considering aspects that I never would have known to think about. She's thoughtful, professional, empathetic, detailed, and a wonderful advisor.
This, in turn, has made me be open to meeting a variety of men that in the past I would have likely passed over. Make no mistake, however, while Maryann has worked hard to find me matches that literally ticked every box on my must-haves list (she's awesome!), this process also helped me to be introspective and see where I went wrong in the past with picking a potential partner. It has also helped me to focus on what is truly important to me and to be OK with asking for those things from a relationship.
Through this process, Maryann has become a trusted advisor on all things dating and also a friend. From the moment we chatted I felt at ease and I appreciated her approach to getting to know me through talking to some of my friends as well. She encourages me and asks thoughtful questions along the way to make sure I am thinking about dating with the right mindset.
I really can't recommend this service enough! The insightful things I have learned about myself are utterly invaluable and I frankly can't see how I would have learned these things about myself otherwise.
Three important things to know if you sign up:
1. You get out what you put into this process. You'll need to work through what you're really looking for which can be tricky, use the resources they provide. Focus on growing and learning about yourself along the way and lean into the experiences this process gives you.
2. TDR can't guarantee you chemistry with a match. Yes, you may be sent a profile of the most perfect person you have ever seen on paper, but they can't predict the ever-elusive chemistry will be there when you meet in person. Be ok with this as it's part of the process. That's where you'll need to take their guidance on meeting people, going on multiple dates, and really give yourself a chance to see if it's there.
3. Be yourself - let this process guide you to ensuring you are being your authentic self and are totally honest about what you want in a relationship.
As for me? I was recently matched with the most perfect guy and am so far totally smitten! Even though it's still early days, one thing is for certain: I would never have met this person if it weren't for joining Three Day Rule!
Sarah, 47
