Elisa Del Castillo

Matchmaker

Positive and with strong intuition, Elisa has always had an understanding and natural ability to connect with others. Her kind nature allows her clients to be their true selves, while her sound advice helps them to open their eyes and heart while dating.

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A Matchmaking Expert

Elisa has the ability to build authentic relationships and help people unlock their full potential as empathetic, loving, and genuine partners. She deeply connects with each person she meets to get to the core of what they want and need in a partner.

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Elisa Knows Dating And Relationships

From flirting tips to heart-to-heart feedback, Elisa will help to get you to the finish line while having fun along the way. Her focus continues to be on her clients' needs and surpassing their expectations.

Testimonials for Elisa

Dating in NYC has its excitement and challenges. Working with Elisa has been a joy. Most importantly, her words of encouragement and sound advice has helped to strengthen my obligation to myself - by holding myself to a higher regard with positivity.

Sandra, 37

Thank you Elisa!

More than just getting a date, Elisa's support and communication through several first dates and then actually dating really helped me understand how to 'date better', not just more.

Nick, 40

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My experience with Elisa was one of great growth and I accomplished what I set out to do-find love! I found this service to be invaluable.

Lora, 38

What I have gained from this experience is knowing what I’m looking for and what I’m not. I appreciate all Elisa's coaching during these couple months.

Debbie, 30

I have nothing but positive things to say about Talia Goldstein and Elisa Del Castillo...their advice, guidance, and matches have been invaluable to me and I very much appreciate their work. I highly recommend working with Three Day Rule!

Evan, 34

Elisa introduced me to some exceptional women who were just my type. I also enjoyed receiving the feedback from Elisa after the dates. I highly recommend Three Day Rule and working with Elisa if you are able to do so.

Tony, 51

Elisa is an excellent Matchmaker because everything she says and does feels seamless, authentic and always heartfelt.

Karisa, 34

A process like this is only as good as the Matchmaker, and if you are able to work with Elisa, I am confident in saying that you will enjoy your experience as much as I have.

Joe, 40

Elisa has gone beyond all requirements to bring love into my life. All potential matches have been genuine, intelligent, and interesting. I am glad I chose to partner with Elisa and Three Day Rule for seeking love.

Kristo, 47

Single

Elisa was with me every step of the way on a truly transformational journey. I was a stranger, but she listened and understood. She helped me grow, bring my best self on every date, and matched me with the highest quality, most compatible candidates!

Ariel, 33

Elisa was so detailed, thorough and responsive to all my questions and is a seasoned pro at this who is very warm and makes the whole process a team effort. Highly recommend for higher-level matches than you will meet on your own. Elisa is amazing.

Lucas, 46

After almost two years of working with Three Day Rule, Shashi was my last match! He was outside of my usual "type," but he is everything I asked for more and more.

Emily, 40

Engaged

I am eternally grateful for Elisa helping me achieve what I never thought was possible for me and that was to find the love of my life with my first match who is now my fiancé! I could not have been happier working with Elisa!

Maria, 42

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